The Chaos and the Calm
Hi there — and truly, welcome. I’m so glad you’re here.
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I’m Shy, a full-time working mom of three young (and wonderfully spirited) kids, learning what it means to build a full life without burning out in the process. Most days, I’m balancing career, motherhood, marriage, and the quiet beauty of country living — all while being lovingly trailed by one high-energy Hungarian Vizsla and a to-do list that never quite ends.
Life out here runs at its own pace. The mornings begin with birdsong instead of traffic, and the days stretch between work meetings, packed lunches, muddy boots, and bedtime routines that rarely go as planned. But there’s something sacred in it — the way small, ordinary moments become anchors in the middle of motion.
Why The Measured Life
The Measured Life was born from that middle space — the place between chaos and calm, ambition and presence, progress and peace.
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It’s a space for people like me (and maybe you too) who want to do meaningful work, raise good humans, and still have room to breathe.
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Here, you’ll find reflections on creating balance that actually fits real life — not the perfectly curated version, but the lived-in one.
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Thoughts on:
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Working with intention
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Nurturing relationships that last
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Parenting with patience and humor
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Finding ways to keep growing, even when the days feel long
It’s not about perfection.
It’s about being deliberate — with our time, our energy, and our joy.
What You'll Find Here
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Stories & Reflections: honest takes on work-life integration, boundaries, and self-growth
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Parenting Notes: real talk about raising kids with patience and grace
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Work & Ambition: navigating career growth without losing your center
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Everyday Balance: small habits, measured progress, and mindful living
A Note From Me
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If you’re also navigating the beautiful mess of “doing it all” while trying to stay grounded and grateful along the way, you’re in good company.
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Here’s to measured progress, strong coffee, and the quiet confidence that we’re finding our way — one thoughtful step at a time.
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Thanks for being here.
Let’s build a life that feels balanced, meaningful, and truly our own.
Welcome to The Measured Life.
